Steps on How to Get Your Crush to Like You

There are a lot of girls in this world that have had a crush on a really hot guy for ages. It's really easy to crush on someone, but it's not easy to get your crush to like you back! This article will provide an easy way to get him/her to notice you.

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Steps

1. 1
   Try casually bumping into your crush. It doesn't have to be dramatic - act like it was a pure accident, and not a bump on purpose. Add a sincere "sorry" or something along those lines, and give them a brief smile - don't overdo it. Just a subtle curve of the lips will do. That way he'll know you exist, and you'll make the first impression a pretty good one. However, don't linger - just slip off with your friends. Friends are always good to have nearby, as they boost confidence.
   
   
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   Talk to your crush.
   
   
   • Don't just end it with a bump. Find out his classes, and pass them in the halls. Let them see you! He will probably notice you, and start remembering you. Whenever you do see your crush in the halls, you should let them catch you glancing at them. This will drop small hints, but it's very important to have a pleasant look on your face - not a creepy or angry one. Try to look curious and not stalker-like or too intense. Be casual!
3. 3
   Always smile and say "Hi" even when you are not close with your crush yet. It will give him /her a little curiosity in his mind and perhaps start a little attraction to you.
   
   
4. 4
   Become friends with his friends. This way, it's highly possible that at some stage, you'll find you and your crush in the same circle and you'll have a chance to talk to them. However, if you don't know his friends, get to know them slowly, until you are good friends- then, you'll find yourself with your crush. Becoming friends with his friends too fast may seem quite desperate or suspicious- and it may give off the wrong idea.
   • However, do not 'use' his friends to get to him. In other words, don't become good friends with his friends, then completely ignore them once you are with your crush.
   • Guys have feelings too, and be aware that some of your crush's friends may talk about you in a negative way to your crush, if you ignore them or 'use' them. Not to mention that it may be considered quite mean and ignorant to do that.
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   Laugh - not an obnoxious, prolonged giggle - at his jokes. Comment on what he says and ask them little questions, etc. Be cool while exhibiting interest. Don't act all girly-girly and blush at every sentence he says, or he may find you annoying.
   
   
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   Look out for possible competition. If another person likes your crush and she starts flirting with your crush too, there isn't much you can do about it. However, don't let it discourage you either! Your crush isn't your property, and you shouldn't feel threatened by that girl. Have the confidence that you'll be able to win your crush over. Also, don't act crazy or funny because that will lead you nowhere😃
   
   
   • When competing against that girl, try not to come off as desperate or make it seem that you're trying to get your crush to like you. He may get suspicious and feel a little annoyed or frightened, and you'll lose your chance! Be casual and smooth, but don't overdo it.
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   Flirt with them. Give them your attention when he wants it. Break the touch barrier, and get comfortable enough to gently hug them or touch their arms when you want to get a point across in conversation. Don't make your hugs stiff or squeeze them to the point of them choking - keep your hugs sweet and affectionate, but know your limits and don't overdo it.
   
   
   • Talk to them. Text or email them, or just chit-chat in class. Make it apparent that you enjoy talking with them. However, it is not recommended that you talk to them by phone, as guys usually aren't comfortable with that.
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   Have some male friends around and make sure your crush sees you talking with them. If you want, you can flirt with them a little bit, but make sure your friends won't see it as weird or creepy! Make it subtle to your friends, but noticeable to your crush. If your crush is interested in you, he'll realize that he needs to put in a little more effort to spend time with you, since you're in "high-demand". Everyone feels a little jealous now and then, as this instinct is inborn.
   
   
   • If you focus every ounce of your attention on your crush all the time, it will be painfully obvious that you are crushing on them!
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   Try to be friends with the guy you like and be nice - talk about things he likes. Don't make it all about you. If you see signs of them liking you, don't jump to anything yet.
   
   
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    Try to be very nice to your crush. Do not play hard to get or be mean to them. Try to give hints that you like them. Don't be shy!
    
    
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    Don't force yourself to act interested in everything he is. After all, opposites attract, not clones!
    
    

Tips

• If you make a fool out of yourself Infront of your crush, don't be embarrassed! Sometimes, it's a turn on.
• Don't let your crush influence you to be a different person.
• If he's with other girls try and go over and join in the conversation. If he finds out you like him it's not the end of the world!!! Actually it's pretty good so now if he makes a move he won't feel so vulnerable.
• Be yourself! Don't change yourself for a crush, because if things don't work out, you'll be left with nothing but a fake poser in the mirror. You are good enough to not have to alter who you are, which is much more important than becoming something you're not.
• Be yourself. If a guy knows you as the person you pretend to be he will be confused (maybe even angry) if you act like a differently when your together.
• Dress up a little! Do-up your make-up or wear your favorite cologne or perfume (make sure neither are over-powering, though).
• There are always zones. Here are ways to tell them:
  • When he touches you from shoulder to elbow, that is the friend zone.
  • When he touches you from elbow to wrist, that's the transforming zone.
  • When he touches you from wrist to finger tips, he likes you.
• Don't get all happy when he helps you pick up a bag or something like that. Keep calm and be grateful.
• The zones are sometimes true. For example, if he picks up a pencil or paper you dropped, and he touches your hand when he is giving it back to you, it may be a little more. If you catch him staring at you a lot, congratulations! You got his attention, and it may be a budding romance.
• Make sure that your crush sees you. Sometimes you don't get to talk to him/her but if you try to walk past them a lot, maybe they will notice you.
• Guys- Be clean! Girls love it if a guy has good hair, so be sure to condition and shampoo thoroughly. And please, wear deodorant and some nice cologne!! Hate to break it to you, but your "inner-man-stink" isn't a turn-on. Wear what compliments you! (Get another girl's opinion. This will help.) Choose that blue shirt that matches your eyes or those cute jeans.
• Girls- Wear your cutest clothes that make you feel beautiful! Show off your curves and femininity in what you wear. Try not to dress to overly-revealing though-- There's nothing sexy about letting it all hang out for the world to see. After you're friends the guy will know you! If you're not a girly girl dont be! Some guys like stronger/sporty girls better than girly girls! But dont over do it! Don't force yourself to do what the other girls are doing! If he's a true guy, he will like you for you!.just give him hugs if u like him but dont be sad you'll have more crushes and maybe they'll end up liking you
• In the end, it's all about you. Don't be crushed if you don't win your crush's heart. After all, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
• Don't stare at her all day. If she sees you, she'll think your some type of stalker.

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Warnings

• Don't overdo it, as you might make mistakes or leave a negative impression.
• Don't be a tease!
• Sometimes, if you text/ring/talk to them too often, it will feel obsessive and stalkerish. Ease off sometimes, especially if one of you is upset or annoyed about something. Make it look like you are laid back or cool.

Never greatly exceed the amount of contact your crush elicits. Its alright to be the one who starts the conversation (some people are outwardly shy, and others may appear outgoing but don't like starting conversations often because they fear people will be irritated by it), but don't keep pushing conversations where you're doing all of the talking. If your crush isn't making an effort to keep the conversation going (or even trying to end it), that's a sign you should immediately back off and give them space. Make sure you give the impression that you're still open to conversation when they feel like it (i.e "I can walk with you after class if you feel like it, but it's alright if you need to rush to next."), but don't make any new attempts to initiate until you get some more positive signs.

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